Friday, May 25, 2012

Time Flies When You're Having Fun!

Well,  it's been more than a month since my last post.  What a great month!  Here are some highlights...


  • Scott made it home from Provo!
  • Jay and Scott took a trip to Austria and Switzerland!
  • Taralynn and Bowen came to visit (we missed Kory)!
  • Jason completed his sophomore year of high school!
  • Amy's time is flying and she's having fun!
And her are the DETAILS....

Scott made it home from Provo!

If you follow Facebook you will know that Scott not only completed his Freshman year at BYU successfully and packed up and drove home BY HIMSELF from Provo (with NO phone as his was in a water accident a few days previous), he also got to visit with a nice Highway Patrolman.  No, Mom was not pleased; and it better never happen again!  Luckily he had sold back a couple of college books that allowed him to take care of his civic obligation :)  ugh.

Jay and Scott took a trip to Austria and Switzerland!

Just TWO days after Scott got home, he and Jay boarded a plane to Switzerland!  This was a Christmas surprise from me (Jay here: it was the best Christmas present ever).  For whatever reason, I thought about doing this for several years. I didn't ever imagine I could pull it off as a surprise for them, but it worked and they have been looking forward to this trip.

Ever since I met Jay I have known that his mission was one of the best times in his life.  I love how he talks of the people he met, the culture he experienced and the testimony he gained.  I know when he gets to Austria all those memories will come back that much stronger.  So my thought was to have them go back to this  place before Scott left on his mission.  The timing could not have been better, really.  

I encouraged them to...have a blast!   To think of me sometimes, to talk about THEIR missions, to laugh together, ski together, eat together, to take pictures and to be like missionary companions—together 24/7—read scriptures and pray and talk to people wherever they went.  

I think they did!  I was proud of them for actually taking pictures!  and sharing their fun times with us when they got home.

Herbs - A favorite missionary eating spot in Vienna!
It's not ALL about eating, but Tichy's is another missionary favorite!  Okay, maybe when vacationing in Europe, or on a mission there, it is all about eating!
The mission apartment--42 Kreuzgasse--Jay was companions with Scott Jackson (one of Scott's namesakes) here!
The Marholt family graciously let Scott and Jay visit!  After all these years they still know and LOVE Jay!  A great family who are so fun and kind.

There is really no place in Europe that isn't beautiful!

Bikes in Salzburg... 

on a cold and rainy day!
Warmth was found at the hotel, no worries!
I would say that Zermatt is one of Jay's favorite places on earth.  Though not a part of his mission, he has made it a part of each trip to Europe since.  The plan was to ski there, but unfortunately the lifts were closed due to wind.


No skiing?  Well, why not SKYDIVING then?!  Yes, the wind won't be a problem there!  Really?!

Yes, really!  Skydiving over the Swiss Alps!  Scott was almost to heaven!  and definitely IN HEAVEN!


They ended their trip with a tradition we have of going to the temple anyplace there is one when we have the chance.  The temples around the world are each uniquely beautiful.  They all are the House of the Lord and His spirit may be felt there.

 Taralynn and Bowen came to visit!

There really aren't words to describe how I feel about being a Grandma.  LOVE IT!  They were only here a few days, but we loved every second.  Taralynn is a terrific mother and Bowen makes us all happier!  We love pictures they send.  We love to Skype often.  We love visits best!

I love this picture!  And Jay said it best when he said that it reminds him of his Mom.  When Phyllis was sick and not talking much, Jay would often ask her questions, having her wrinkle her nose if she understood.  She always did.  Days before she  passed away Jay made it a daily routine to ask his Mom if she loved him.  She, without hesitation, wrinkled her nose.  This picture is in honor of her!  April 22, 2012, marked six years since her passing.  We love and miss her!
Bowen got to meet Ellie.  She is the favorite baby around these parts and found she had some competition when Bowen came to visit!  At first, she really wasn't interested in him but after a while she wanted to play!
Next time he'll be ready to play with her!
Aunt Amy did not want to share...but she did! He loves her.

It was fun watching Scott and Jason hold him, talk to  him and play with him.  Here he is in one of his new outfits from Arizona which reads, My AUNT is AWESOME!
The other new outfit from Arizona!  His uncles ARE RAD!  And they loved him! 
And just in case you were wondering if Taralynn really did come, here's a picture of her too!

  Jason completed his sophomore year of high school!

Jason is a "normal" teenage boy...I hope!  He did very well in school, though we don't have the grades yet.  He loves fun!  The first day of summer has been eventful.  He and his friends wanted to make a big slip and slide in the yard.  Okay.  With a ramp.  and a bungee cord.  really?  Yes, really.  This picture doesn't capture the fun that they had.  I'm sure you'll find those videos from their phones on Facebook soon :)  Oh boy!  If I live through these boys I will have accomplished something! 

 Jason goes on the Trek next week with the youth in our stake.  It will be a wonderful experience for him to appreciate more the early pioneers, their faith, their sacrifice, and their love of the Lord as he experiences something similar to what they experienced.  These families truly are amazing and can teach us so much. I am happy for the opportunity we will have to be with Jason and learn with him.

Amy's time is flying and she's having fun!

Amy is doing great.  She is busy working three jobs right now.  When she is home, she is working and when she is away, she is working.  She leaves those jobs next week for another job.  She will be a counselor at Especially for Youth in Provo.  I will miss her.  She may not make her bed very often, but she does make a difference in our home.  She is so good for all of us--she listens, encourages, loves and makes life fun for all of us.   As she serves and contemplates life she is happy and she makes good choices.  She will be a fabulous counselor - everyone's favorite!  I'm not gonna lie, though, she will be missed.


So there you have it!  We are busy doing good things.  For Mother's Day all I wanted was to go to the mountains with my family for the weekend and then be home in time Sunday to watch the Survivor finale!  It was a great weekend.  My kids love me.  Jay loves me.  and I love them! I couldn't be happier!

love, 
Lori

Friday, April 13, 2012

This is pure JOY!


THIS IS A MISSION CALL!  

SCOTT SUCCESSFULLY READ:

Dear Elder Allen:
You are hereby called to serve as a missionary of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  You are assigned to labor in the Russia Rostov-na-Donu Mission.  It is anticipated that you will serve for a period of 24 months.
You should report to the Provo Missionary Training Center on Wednesday, August 29, 2012.  You will prepare to preach the gospel in the Russian language...
Sincerely, Thomas S. Monson

The opening of a mission call is unique for each and every missionary.  We have been talking about this one in our family for months!  The call was "in process" for 19 days.  It arrived in Mesa, Arizona.  Scott still resided in Provo Utah.  What to do?

There were many options given.  The one decided upon was to have Jay's secretary--a reliable, honest source--to scan the call WITHOUT LOOKING, and e-mail it, WITHOUT LOOKING, to Amy's roommate and dear friend--another reliable and honest source--to print it, WITHOUT LOOKING, and seal it in an envelope, WITHOUT LOOKING, and deliver it to Scott's apartment at 9:00 pm, Utah time.

We got Scott on Skype at 8:50 pm, Utah time (7:50 pm, Arizona time).  Gathered in our family room was Jay, Lori, Amy, Jason, Grandma and Grandpa Andreasen, Hunter  and Jordan.  Taralynn, Kory and Bowen were on another computer in the room, listening in.

Abby delivered the envelope--she did her job perfect and got to stay and witness this--and take the picture above!  Scott's buddies Kevin and Jake were also there in the downstairs Activities Room of Heritage Halls, building 25, with Scott!  

We saw the sealed envelope.  
He opened it quickly.  
He began to read.  
His eyes scanned down a bit.  
He looked up and chuckled.  
And then proceeded to say RUSSIA!  
 

 WHAT?!  Crazy!  Exciting!  The room was filled with pure JOY!
We chatted with Scott for another 10-15 minutes.  So fun!  

He was excited!  I think he was overwhelmed, but truly happy.  
I hated to say goodbye, but we did.  
Jason was the only one around that I could hug and feel like I was hugging Scott! 


The reaction from those in the room?
Jay:  Would have never guessed it...though it doesn't surprise me at all!
Amy:  I'm so proud right now!
Taralynn:  If you had come to Idaho for school, you would have been more prepared for the cold.
Kory:  That is a long ways away!
 
Jason:  You're gonna be a great missionary in Russia! I think I'll learn some Russian on line while he's gone...
  
We talked and laughed and googled and texted and called and answered the door for the next couple hours.  D-backs were winning in the background! Jordan spoke a little Russian for us.  The only thing that would have made it better would have been to have SCOTT WITH US!

 Most of the comments went something like this: "Scott will do great there."  "Doesn't surprise me."  "So exciting!"  "I can already see him there in my mind!"  "They only call the most sturdy, hardworking elders to Russia!" "That's a perfect mission for him!"  "How is Scott feeling about it?"  Dave and Tami commented that his report date is so close to Tanner's birthday!  Aunt Heather commented that his report date IS HER birthday! 

After everyone left and I was cleaning up the kitchen, I couldn't help but think of how our home was filled with love that evening.  There was a great spirit in our home, for which I was truly grateful.  

At the end of the night, I sent this text to Scott:  How are you feeling now?
His Text back:  It's crazy.  Too many emotions in my head at once.  How am I supposed to study now!?

I was a proud Mom when I went to bed, still trying to say the name of the mission to sound right!  As Jay and I lay in bed talking, before falling asleep, the picture that kept coming to my mind was Scott's picture on a large computer screen and this talk given in 2010 by Elder Rasband...
    Elder Eyring was assigning missionaries to their fields of labor, and as part of my training, I was invited to observe.
    I joined Elder Eyring early one morning in a room where several large computer screens had been prepared for the session. There was also a staff member from the Missionary Department who had been assigned to assist us that day.
    First, we knelt together in prayer. I remember Elder Eyring using very sincere words, asking the Lord to bless him to know “perfectly” where the missionaries should be assigned. The word “perfectly” said much about the faith that Elder Eyring exhibited that day.
    As the process began, a picture of the missionary to be assigned would come up on one of the computer screens. As each picture appeared, to me it was as if the missionary were in the room with us. Elder Eyring would then greet the missionary with his kind and endearing voice: “Good morning, Elder Reier or Sister Yang. How are you today?”
    He told me that in his own mind he liked to think of where the missionaries would conclude their mission. This would aid him to know where they were to be assigned. Elder Eyring would then study the comments from the bishops and stake presidents, medical notes, and other issues relating to each missionary.
    He then referred to another screen which displayed areas and missions across the world. Finally, as he was prompted by the Spirit, he would assign the missionary to his or her field of labor.
    From others of the Twelve, I have learned that this general method is typical each week as Apostles of the Lord assign scores of missionaries to serve throughout the world.
    Having served as a missionary in my own country in the Eastern States Mission a number of years ago, I was deeply moved by this experience. Also, having served as a mission president, I was grateful for a further witness in my heart that the missionaries I had received in New York City were sent to me by revelation.

to read the entire talk go to http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/04/the-divine-call-of-a-missionary?lang=eng

I could go on and on, but will save all the rest of my thoughts for another day! This was one of those monumental moments that mothers look forward to from the day they become a mother!  

Scott posted on Facebook:  "Life all comes down to a few moments. This is one of them." I don't know if that is a quote from a movie or what, but it does express the feeling!  Russia!  It's the country that when I was a teenager we prayed their doors would open to the missionaries.  Today, my son will serve as one of those missionaries--in one of the EIGHT missions currently in Russia!  He will learn and grow as he teaches and testifies.  He will bless the lives of others as his life is blessed.

Scott's mission call says,
The Lord will reward you for the goodness of your life.  Greater blessings and more happiness than you have yet experienced await you as you humbly and prayerfully serve the Lord in this labor of love among His children.

More about the rest of my family soon!  I am proud of them all!
love,
Lori 

Monday, March 19, 2012

Better than a Marriott...

Why is this room better than a Marriott????
Because this handsome guy is not far away...and there is a personal heater by the bed!

What is Jason's favorite part of the outfit?
The shoes! AIR JORDANS!

Who has the magic touch?  The girls or the boys?
 His Mom, of course.

What was Grandpa's favorite activity on his vacation?
hmmm.  Definitely a tie!  
They are already talking about the day when Bowen will get to join them on the slopes!
Who was blessed on March 11, 2012?
Bowen Jay - He was an angel during the blessing and during the church meeting - smiling and loving being held by his parents.  It was a sweet day, complete with Taralynn's sweet pork dinner for all the family and friends!

Who is the BEST Aunt in the Allen family...?
Aunt Amy!  He was worth the wait!  She was in heaven and hated to leave her sister...and her nephew!  In fact, we all had a hard time leaving...

Spring Break of 2012 
will go down as one of the sweetest weeks ever!

After holding him for the first time Jay said
He's cute in the pictures but he's much better in REAL life!
So true, so true!  You should go visit and see for yourself!
love, Lori

Monday, March 5, 2012

Update...

Scott has been home three out of the last four weekends.  Yes.  You heard right.  There is always room in someone's car for Scott because he packs light--just his school backpack!  He loves being home, I guess!  We love having him.  Seems like someone he knows gets a mission call every week!  This last week it was his roommate from last semester, Jake.  Called to Chile!  Scott's mission papers are getting ready--and can be turned in soon!

We ran with Amy!  Yep!  The Phoenix Half Marathon--FIRST EVER!  It was a beautiful day in Mesa.  We ran together for a while--but then Jay wanted to beat "the biggest looser!"  Amy and I were close behind.  With the little training we did, I'd say we succeeded!  We all finished, and ran through the finish line after 13.1 miles!  

We knew many who were involved in the planning of this event.  They can be proud.  It was perfect!  Great, happy volunteers, with COLD water and Powerade, perfect weather (I know they planned that!), good course (no sun in our faces), family to cheer us at the finish line (thanks Mel!), a cool medal to show off, and great snacks after the run!  

Basketball season has officially ended.  Knee is strong and getting stronger every day.  Jason still finds time to play basketball often.  Jay has been playing a little church ball.  Our ward beat the singles ward last week!  That is quite a feat!  They all know Jay and make those old men work for their win!

Jason can now be found at the Mt. View track meets doing the high jump!  He's working hard and having fun.  We need to get him driving a little more...

Boise Bowen!  From what we hear, he loves being held!  He is awake all day, unless someone is holding him!  He sleeps good at night, though, so no complaining!  WE VISIT HIM THURSDAY!  Jason has "called" sitting by him in the car.  Amy has "called" holding him first!  I'm not sure if she will let any of the rest of us have a turn without a fight!  He will be blessed on Sunday March 11.  We can't wait to visit...and I promise to take pictures of his parents too!

Until next time...

love,
Lori

Monday, February 13, 2012

Day-by-Day

February 8, 2012...changed lives forever!

Bowen born 2:32 pm...




  February 9, 2012...Lori went to visit!

February 10, 2012...Bowen came home!

February 11,  2012...getting used to things!  
February 12, 2012...
getting the hand print on the baseball...tricky!

February 13, 2012...the photo shoot...Mom was the photographer!







The proud and amazing mother!

I could write a page or two about each day, each picture, each moment.  But for  now I will just say being a grandma is fun and watching the process of your daughter becoming a mother is amazing!  I have never been so proud of her.  I have never been so grateful for her caring and loving husband.  I have never been so happy!

THE OTHERS?!  Yep! They are in Arizona--loving every skype.  
Scott was home for the weekend.  He was able to start his mission papers.  He did a lot on his own and Jay helped also.  He went to the dentist and the doctor.  His best friend, Hunter, got home from his mission and they had some fun together.  He has flown back to Salt Lake now.  He plans to come to Idaho this weekend and meet Bowen in person!

Amy is working.  Loves every update and picture of Bowen.  She will LOVE meeting him in person!  She will be a fabulous Aunt and, like me, will hate the thought of coming home.  She got a new church calling and will be planning some fun activities!

Jason is recovering from knee surgery without any complaints.  Physical therapy has been good and he has played some basketball and the knee feels GREAT, he says!  He loves the pictures too and comments on how very cute his nephew is!

Jay is amazing!  He should be here, but is patiently (?) waiting a few more weeks to hold this little guy.  He is very supportive and loves the thought of being Grandpa.  It will really feel great when he meets Bowen and holds him.  I imagine them sitting in front of the heater just bonding!  I LOVE JAY!  Happy Valentines Day Jay!  I miss you!

These past days have once again helped me realize that 
Family is Central to Heavenly Father's Plan.  
And that plan is perfect...

with love,
Lori